My secondary classmate told me a very old story. He remember during the old days - our History teacher, Miss Chan, taught the class on the history story, she mentioned one point...Sometimes in order to step forward, you need to step back two steps..By stepping back doesn't necessarily mean withdraw or defeat, it may imply you have more space for rebouncing or creative problem handling.

I have forgotten this statement long time ago really. Actually I could barely remember this story but I think this is an insightful perspective to handle daily chaos and problem. I've got too aggressive and demanding at most of the time, by placing the same high standards (on myself) to other people, never fear any confrontation. Sometimes, moves backward is another way of progress & advancement.